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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

11.06.2025 13:12

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

It was going to be , some day.

My friend asked my crush and he said my crush hates me but not in a rude way. What does that mean?

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

Especially a lifetime of it.

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I have no regrets .

I will be 64.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

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I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

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But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

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He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

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My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

Summer here, the one who debunks atheism. Isn’t it funny how atheists always say they prefer a “no-nonsense, evidence-based approach” to understanding the world, but when I bring up logical arguments for theism, they suddenly clam up?

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

He was dying to do it , i knew.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

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Another so called friend had bit the dust..

The only rule us 5 kids had .

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

Why do older siblings always hate younger siblings?

He knew the spot.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

I was scared of men, in general

Why are people with Asperger syndrome unenthusiastic?

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

He resisted the act ,that day.

But ive been too sick for many years..

But, we were locked up after school.

So whats the point in blame.

Would this be the day?

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

I waited trembling.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

I was 9 years of age.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

When she asked me how she looked .

This is how, and why children get BPD.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

I was very sick at this time too.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

I never cut or harmed myself..

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

So, i spoilt her more .

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

Put me off passion for life!!

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

Im dying but, im not bitter.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

(And it was in our own minds.)

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

Why did i forgive my father ?

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

My life is so biszare .

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

I was seconnd youngest,

I write beautiful poetry .

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

One cannot live in the past .

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

She wouldn,t have been !

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

Was to survive, this bastard.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

This is soul school!.

We all went to grammer schools

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

She was in good health!

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

Who then, do I blame.?

They are buried together, in the same grave..

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

All the time i was locked up.

What did i know ?

She married twice! .

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

I think the readers, may guess!

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

My mum and dad in the seventies!

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

I said to her

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

We were not on the streets..

I did it because my mum asked me too!

And who doesn’t know suffering?

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

Ive learnt so much.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

My family never makes their pension either.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

I couldn’t, believe it.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

But it wasn’t much.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

She found it foreign!.

Im still living with it.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

She loved him until the end.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

As i do to all so called friends.?

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

And i lived it daily.

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

I don,t even have a pension.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

I could never make a relationship work though!

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

Comes on , in middle age.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!